Stop being nice and start being seductive.

Little things we say and do every day sabotage our relationship. Become a seductress again. "Sweetie, sweetie, sweetie..." Who would have thought that using these sweet nicknames would be the first step toward a sexless life? And what about those "self-care" activities that used to be done behind closed doors and are now done out in the open? Believe me, sharing these things with your partner is the best way to end a healthy sexual relationship. Stop Being Nice and Start Being Seductive is a smart, bold, and honest guide for women of all ages. It offers a revolutionary insight into the root causes of boredom in bed. As Maggie Arana and Julienne Davis discovered, the little things we say and do every day sabotage chemistry in a relationship. Without psychoanalytic jargon, it explains why habits like establishing a date night once a week or having sex in different places are merely palliatives: the truth is, if you already don't want to have sex, forcing yourself to do it at the kitchen table won't solve the problem! You'll also learn that arguing is a fundamental factor in bringing couples closer, the importance of maintaining individuality, and how sexuality doesn't depend on a perfect body, but on how a woman sees herself and how she projects her self-esteem to her partner. If your sex life resembles an instruction manual more than a breathtaking romance, stop calling your partner "sweetie" and start feeding the flame of desire!