Psychoanalyst Betty Milan reinvented the tradition of the love counseling clinic, ingrained in our culture. And she created a new moral education, with tips for the most diverse—and current—situations. Like Nelson Rodrigues, who, hiding under the pseudonym Mirna, distributed emotional wisdom to readers, Betty offers her opinions on various behavioral changes in Brazilian lives—the internet, metrosexuality—in a kind of love lesson, based on listening. "When listened to, the other person's drama can become my own. I draw precious lessons from it. I've received more than one email from a reader telling me this," explains Betty. In "Quem ama ouvir" (Who Loves Listens), she encourages unprejudiced reflection on life's dramas and the search for self. According to the author, to be free, we need to decipher the enigmas of the unconscious, analyze the past to understand the present and the future. As in "Talk to Her," Betty Milan answers the questions addressed to her. But without ever underestimating the intelligence of her reader. "I don't answer the client's question by offering a solution, but by indicating the path to finding one. I do this through a rigorous analysis of the submitted text. To provide the answer, I value the client's words and their way of expressing themselves," he argues. "Quem ama ouvir" (Who Loves Listening) brings together the best columns published on Veja magazine's website. He asserts that, to be free, we need to decipher the enigmas of the unconscious, analyzing the past to understand the present and the future.